MightyMate
Master Don Juan
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Tell her You wanna *******. Simple.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Originally posted by CrazyAsianBiker
2 more days mangood luck.
Haha, I've already done that to a degree. Last time I slept over we were making out and getting touchy feely like at 1 AM and then out of the sudden she goes "I'm sleepy" so I pulled back, went to the bathroom and then laid back down. After a while she started touching me again and headed for my crotch so I took her hand off and told her "Babe, you're sleepy, go to sleep" a couple of times. After like 5 min she asked if Iwas mad and I told her no I just want you to go to sleep now and she finally did.Originally posted by TheManlyMan
turn out the lights and go slowly. make sure shes turned on. If she freaks out. KILL THE MOOD ENTIRELY. Blow out all the candles of lovemaking. Go check your ****in email or grab somethin to eat/drink. Go to the bathroom and jerk it out so you don't get blue balls. Don't touch her for the rest of the night. Act like shes just a friend. Go home after you eat everything in her fridge. (joking about that, but browse around for anything good before you leave)
next time she won't try **** like that. Let her know WHO is in control. Shes enjoying the fact that she can start/stop the most pleasurable part of the relationship. **** that. Grab the reigns man.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.