Getting further with this girl...

[lavida88]

Im a junior in highschool and theres this freshman girl whos into me. We have almost never talked except for a name exchange and shes not in any of my classes, but shes into me.

How would I get further than just firting glances with this girl? Whats the next step I would take?

Being that I already know she likes me should I just take her out now? Or should I spend more time getting to know her?

Im new to all this and I dont know whats the next step to take once you have a girl who physically likes you but doesnt know you. I dont know how to approach her, what to talk about with her, when to take her out, etc etc

 

[Testify]

Well the only way you can get to know her is by hanging out with her. Next time you see her, approach her and just start talking. Use the tips from this site and you'll be fine. If she's into you as you say she is then she will be glad you approached her. Ask her for her email, number, etc and mention getting together with her. Then in a couple days give her a shout and make some plans.

 

[lavida88]

Originally posted by Testify
Well the only way you can get to know her is by hanging out with her. Next time you see her, approach her and just start talking. Use the tips from this site and you'll be fine. If she's into you as you say she is then she will be glad you approached her. Ask her for her email, number, etc and mention getting together with her. Then in a couple days give her a shout and make some plans.

Thats my problem, I'm new to all this, I dont know what'd Id be talking to her about when I see her or where'd I'd take her to hang or what'd we do or anything.

 

[Testify]

Have you read the forums? The bible? etc?
Just spend a night reading all this **** and give it a go. There's so much to learn. I am a newbie too.

Talk about what her. Her interests, what she does for fun, where she's from, if you notice something she is wearing that is unique; talk about that, talk about what she did last weekend, you just need to start talking to her. Once you do that then you can get some digits.

 

[chill]

hes right. the best way to get a girl is to get to kinda know her (be wary of the friends zone, cause its a bottomless pit with the excape at the very bottom) and then make jokes off of what shes told you. if she is french, bring **** up about french kissing ( i know its immature, but you said shes a freshmen, so it should be alright). if she does something stupid, tease her about it. the best way to learn this stuff is reading the bible, seriously. and dont turn into some of the people around here and over analize every little thing.

but remember, you got like 2-3 years on her, you are the dominant one! dont forget it.

 

[Hendrix]

Book em' Dano. Chill said it. Take the bull by the horns.