Hi guys, I am still new to dating world, I had solid success, about a week ago I met ****ing hot girl at birthday party, we were playing drinking game and I cant really remember but we were cuddling and kissing for most of the night, We didnt really talk, I just know her name and I added her on insta, my friend told me she thinks I am cute and that she would like to find more about me, I find her attractive and I called her on a date, she told me she is free at thursday and I said ok, we didnt really chat, since I want to stay mysterious and dont want to be needy, and last night I sent her message to confirm a date and she sai "I wont be able to go out tommorow, we can go out another time, sorry, It felt bad but oh well I dont really know her.. Maybe she had some good reason for flaking but I dont really believe it, I didnt respond, what is your advice? Did I do right thing of ignoring her, because she said she was into me and this happenned?
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What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
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If she was interested and really could not make it, she would have proposed another day and place with clarity.
You could reply to leave the door open (if you care about that). Just reply - "duly noted".
You could reply to leave the door open (if you care about that). Just reply - "duly noted".
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Oh, if she's attractive as you say she is, you should believe it.
Think you're the only one putting a bid in? You're not.
She didn't give a counteroffer. That's low interest. If Lebron James asked her , and she couldn't show, she'd make damn sure to have a date ready, and they'd arrange as necessary.
Just delete the number and move on. If she's interested, she'll reach out. Otherwise, do not follow.
Case closed.
Think you're the only one putting a bid in? You're not.
She didn't give a counteroffer. That's low interest. If Lebron James asked her , and she couldn't show, she'd make damn sure to have a date ready, and they'd arrange as necessary.
Just delete the number and move on. If she's interested, she'll reach out. Otherwise, do not follow.
Case closed.