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We_ArE_VeNOM

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Yo shout out to DW3 for putting himself out there, and vividly so.

This is what I want EVERYONE to do..

If any one of you have women on your contact list that you have not communicated with in a long time and also of whom you've never smashed..do this.

Send her a simple, random message out of the blue..it can be as simple as..

"Hey Stacy, I want to have sex with you tonight"

Or..

"So tonight, are we f#ckin or what"

(I recommend the first).

Whatever the message is, make sure it is a direct, one worded sentence.

If she messages you back with anything that implies a strong NONCOMPLIANCE, then delete her number from your phone.

If she offers a weak noncompliance, prompt her to give you a yes or a no..

Always thrive for a yes or no a answer...weak no's leave the door open and you want the door closed.

Sometimes, you have to catch women at the right time and those weak noncompliances can be a reflection of it being the wrong time.

My sister revealed to me that the only reason my nephew was born was because her baby daddy caught her at the right time lol.


So what I am saying is, for you to MODE ONE all of the women that you did not smash yet but have fell out of communication.

In the case of DW3, I would have sent her one DIRECT text and if the answer is no, she is gone for good.

I have 2 cases where this has worked...
 

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Case 1: I went grocery shopping at Winco Foods around midnight (Winco is a 24 hr store).

As I am shopping, I see a tall, brown-skin BBW shopping.

She had some BIG ASS TITTIES, and women with titties that big AUTOMATICALLY gets an approach.

So I approach her with the typical line...short, direct, and sweet.

Got her number.

Called her and we spoke on the phone.

At that time I was not Mode One, so the conversation was a "get to know each other" type.

We had spoke about a movie date but with conflicting schedules, nothing materialized.

We slowly stopped communicating.

So, about a month had passed, and I assumed she had lost interest in me.

So my thing was; if she lost interest in me, I MIGHT AS WELL JUST BE AS BLUNT/DIRECT with her, since in my mind she was already gone anyway.

That way I will have full closure and NOT have this brawd on my contact list without "paying rent".

So after a month of not speaking to her..i sent her a text..

Mode One..

"So are you gon let me suck them big ass titties?"

Her response?

"OMG Where I haven't heard from you!! Where have you been!!"

Now notice, it isn't what she said that is telling, it is what she didn't say.

She didn't say "How dare you say this to me. Do not speak to me again."

So, long story short, the next night, where was I?

I was over her condo, sucking her BIG ASS TITTIES and could have tagged that phat puzzy if I wanted to.

The key?

I got CLOSURE, while fully acknowledging and accepting that the outcome might not go my way.

So, her number remained in my phone, as my phone is only reserved for women who are f#cking with me.
 

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Case 2: I moved back to Michigan from AZ to pursue a truck driving career.

While in route, I stopped in Springfield, Ill for the night.

The following morning, I went to IHOP for breakfast.

I was seated at a booth behind two mature black women. They were talking to each other and I didn't get a good glimpse of them while I was being seated.

My back was facing towards them, and when I casually turned head, I hear..

"Oh, so you are gonna turn your head and not speak to the two ladies behind you??"

They were just getting up to leave, so i stood up to greet them.

We stood there talking, and both were well dressed classy looking women, both looked to be in their 50's.

Come to find out, both were truck drivers, which was a unifying point between us.

I asked them questions about the industry and one of them told me..

"Here, take my number and we can talk more about it" :cool:

Which I did. ;)

Me and her spoke briefly via text and that was it.

We slowly stopped communicating.

We met in May, and now it is early August.

3 months later, not a word from either of us.

Until..

Mode One..

"I want to have sex with you".

Yup. Just like that.

Nothing more, nothing less.

I randomly sent her that text after 3 months of no contact.

Her response..

"Oh. Wow. Im not sure how to respond."

But see, what she failed to realize is; that response was all I needed lol.

Because again, no "How dare you!! Delete my number!!"

Sorry to make a short story long, but me and her made plans to coordinator our "home time" at the same casino-hotels so we could get our f#ck on...and she even told me that my d-game better be good.

She told me that she was feeling me the moment she saw me at IHOP :cool:.

I said that to say this; I got closure when I needed closure, going Mode One.

Of course now, it will never take me that long to get closure. Not even close.

My point is, TIE UP ALL LOOSE ENDS NOW.

That is what DW3 did, but with too much DAMN TALKIN lol.
 

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This thread made me have a good laugh. Not at you, dear OP, but at the prospect of actually giving this a go. Just had a look through my contacts. There's even a few girls I've not even spoken to in a couple of years (one or two I have smashed before, though).

The idea of texting out of the blue tickles me! Who dares wins. I may have to give this a go over next week - crimpo and all, might get a result.
 

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This thread made me have a good laugh. Not at you, dear OP, but at the prospect of actually giving this a go. Just had a look through my contacts. There's even a few girls I've not even spoken to in a couple of years (one or two I have smashed before, though).

The idea of texting out of the blue tickles me! Who dares wins. I may have to give this a go over next week - crimpo and all, might get a result.
Exactly!!! You cant lose, can you???

If she say no, it doesn't matter because she was dead to you anyway.

If she says yes, then it is like finding $50 bucks in your couch that you thought you lost forever...and now you found it and can spend it.

Either way, closure is what we want.
 

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Exactly!!! You cant lose, can you???

If she say no, it doesn't matter because she was dead to you anyway.

If she says yes, then it is like finding $50 bucks in your couch that you thought you lost forever...and now you found it and can spend it.

Either way, closure is what we want.
No is just as good as yes …. Time stops being wasted
 

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If she says no, then yall are incompatible.

Don't want to be with someone who you aren't compatible with, do you?

:lol: :lol:
Maybe's are worse than no's

Yes (or yes with nothing more than a token coyness) is the only acceptable answer.
 
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