getting excellent at dating to be a dating coach for money

[Thebestthereeveris]

I am still out of a job. Ridiculous. My skill sets are I am exxtremely fit and also good at dating both way above average compared to the average man. I havent even focused on dating as much as i did in college but im thinking of becoming REALLY good with women and putting my foucs on it not to get laid or get hotter girls but SOLELY for the purpose of making money teaching other men. Honestly would like to hear your guys opinion on this. Im going to do it regardless but would like some input.

 

[BaronOfHair]

Get into IF you seriously enjoy being of service to others/find that to be rewarding. Any vocation that requires working one on one with clients is frequently challenging, and you'll be quickly overwhelmed, if you get into such work PRIMAIRLY for fantasizes of near-instant wealth

Same way several million law grads each year burn out after a year or two on the job, upon discovering that real life's resemblance to Perry Mason, How To Get Away With Murder, Suits, or The Good Fight is more anemic than KStew's ability to pass for what's on display at this

particular show room

 

[plumber]

when women ask you what your job is, what are you going to tell them ?

 

[Thebestthereeveris]

when women ask you what your job is, what are you going to tell them ?

Dating coach and fitness coach. I don't have shame.

 

[Thebestthereeveris]

Get into IF you seriously enjoy being of service to others/find that to be rewarding. Any vocation that requires working one on one with clients is frequently challenging, and you'll be quickly overwhelmed, if you get into such work PRIMAIRLY for fantasizes of near-instant wealth

Same way several million law grads each year burn out after a year or two on the job, upon discovering that real life's resemblance to Perry Mason, How To Get Away With Murder, Suits, or The Good Fight is more anemic than KStew's ability to pass for what's on display at this

particular show room

I'm very familiar with great things taking time. Not falling into get rich quick fantasies.

 

[BaronOfHair]

I'm very familiar with great things taking time. Not falling into get rich quick fantasies.

Terrific!!! As I also mentioned, get into this field primairly because you enjoy being of service and providing those who are in need with the tools to help themselves. You'll get burned out and frustrated otherwise

 

[Thebestthereeveris]

Terrific!!! As I also mentioned, get into this field primairly because you enjoy being of service and providing those who are in need with the tools to help themselves. You'll get burned out and frustrated otherwise

Of course.. Ive actually heard horror stories from dating coaches and i am not suprised. If your really bad with women and i mean awful typically you have a lot of psycholgoical issues going on. Ive always said dating and pickup attracts and has the BEST of the best people you can find and also the weirdest mother ****ers ever.

 

[BPH]

@Thebestthereeveris that's actually what I'm doing now.

Really good at getting laid, not so great at business. So maybe the business should be about getting laid.

I don't know how many women you've been with, or the quality of those women, but my recommendation to you would be to clean up your presentation.

Most of the responses and threads I read from you come across like Twitter posts or Facebook status updates; very impulsive, low-effort, quick posts filled with poor spelling and often absent of any punctuation.

I say this not to bash you, but because I don't think people would take you seriously when you're not good at articulating your thoughts on-screen.

 

[BPH]

Of course...I've actually heard horror stories from dating coaches, and I am not surprised. If you're really bad with women, and I mean awful, typically, you have a lot of psychological issues going on. I've always said dating and pickup attracts and has the BEST of the best people you can find, and also the weirdest mother ****ers ever.

For example, I made a multitude of corrections in bold.

 

[SW15]

I am still out of a job. Ridiculous.

The current job market is terrible in nearly every white collar field. Blue collar employment is holding up a little bit better right now.

SOLELY for the purpose of making money teaching other men.

That's a competitive space. Additionally, not many men are willing to pay large sums of money for individualized coaching. It's difficult to scale that business and make it financially worthwhile.

Even selling a book for $20-$30 is a difficult business model.

 

[CornbreadFed]

You don’t need to be good with women to be a dating coach, just good at selling BS.

 

[Thebestthereeveris]

The current job market is terrible in nearly every white collar field. Blue collar employment is holding up a little bit better right now.



That's a competitive space. Additionally, not many men are willing to pay large sums of money for individualized coaching. It's difficult to scale that business and make it financially worthwhile.

Even selling a book for $20-$30 is a difficult business model.

I've applied to so many places lost count. I got offers obviously but pay is ass. Fml

 

[SW15]

pay is ass.

Welcome to 2025! Pay is ass everywhere.

I got offers

Getting a job offer in 2025 might be considered an achievement. I think you have a valid point that a lot of 2025 offers are bad offers.

I've applied to so many places lost count.

This is a common experience in 2025.

 

[CornbreadFed]

even people with jobs are feeling the heat. My company has gone insane, I am paranoid about ending up unemployed, and I am also applying for jobs too lol.

 

[BaronOfHair]

Of course.. Ive actually heard horror stories from dating coaches and i am not suprised. If your really bad with women and i mean awful typically you have a lot of psycholgoical issues going on

Yeah, in any type of gig where you're coaching/counseling someone one on one, you'll be working with them at a low point in their life. Ergo, it pays to be passionate about serving others

 

[SW15]

even people with jobs are feeling the heat. My company has gone insane, I am paranoid about ending up unemployed, and I am also applying for jobs too lol.

People with jobs are feeling the heat. A lot of companies in a lot of different industries are announcing layoffs. Procter & Gamble announced a major layoff this morning. Procter & Gamble operates basic household brands. If they are laying off, it's a sign of broad economic weakness. The tech space has been known for layoffs (think Meta, Microsoft, etc). Southwest Airlines did a big layoff earlier this year due to long time mismanagement.

When a company lays off, the layoff survivors get anxious and it destroys morale at a company.

Male SMV is affected by layoffs, whereas female SMV is not affected by layoffs.

Males who aren't laid off but who work at companies where layoffs are happening can see their relationships/sex life go downhill due to anxiety/stress.

 

[Thebestthereeveris]

@Thebestthereeveris that's actually what I'm doing now.

Really good at getting laid, not so great at business. So maybe the business should be about getting laid.

I don't know how many women you've been with, or the quality of those women, but my recommendation to you would be to clean up your presentation.

Most of the responses and threads I read from you come across like Twitter posts or Facebook status updates; very impulsive, low-effort, quick posts filled with poor spelling and often absent of any punctuation.

I say this not to bash you, but because I don't think people would take you seriously when you're not good at articulating your thoughts on-screen.

how are you viewing my twitter posts and facebook status?

 

[Thebestthereeveris]

@Thebestthereeveris that's actually what I'm doing now.

Really good at getting laid, not so great at business. So maybe the business should be about getting laid.

I don't know how many women you've been with, or the quality of those women, but my recommendation to you would be to clean up your presentation.

Most of the responses and threads I read from you come across like Twitter posts or Facebook status updates; very impulsive, low-effort, quick posts filled with poor spelling and often absent of any punctuation.

I say this not to bash you, but because I don't think people would take you seriously when you're not good at articulating your thoughts on-screen.

Nevermind I see what you mean. I agree. But also some people resonate with the wild crazy approach. To be honest a lot of my game is gibberish and doing whatever the **** I want. I come across as different and interesting but I also know how to tone it down and be more "normal". I think girls like a wild spontaneous dude but also a guy who knows how to read the room and keep his **** together when the situation warrants it.

 

[zekko]

You could become a gigolo.

 

[BPH]

Nevermind I see what you mean. I agree. But also some people resonate with the wild crazy approach. To be honest a lot of my game is gibberish and doing whatever the **** I want. I come across as different and interesting but I also know how to tone it down and be more "normal". I think girls like a wild spontaneous dude but also a guy who knows how to read the room and keep his **** together when the situation warrants it.

Sure, I'm just highlighting how you might come across to guys who are considering buying your services.