"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Getting erection while talking to a woman

PapiChulo

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Speaking of sexual state, I literally get a partial erection when talking to women who I am interested in out of lust only. I think they can sense that theres something going. Does that happen to you guys? Or I am just a horny bastard.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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PapiChulo said:
I think they can sense that theres something going.
Whip out your backhanded compliment and tell her it's only a semi... :up:

Jokes, what Marty said.
 

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PapiChulo said:
Speaking of sexual state, I literally get a partial erection when talking to women who I am interested in out of lust only. I think they can sense that theres something going. Does that happen to you guys? Or I am just a horny bastard.
It means you're a perfectly healthy male!

You should be worried if you don't get erections when around women rather than the other way around. Most guys above 50 would love to have "your problem." :D
 

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Once you have sex you'll realize that it isn't such a big deal to just talk to a woman and your problem will go away
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I enjoy it, but it bloody creeps up sometimes because all I am thinking is sex. With other ones it is no problem because I think less about sex. Maybe there is an advantage to be gained from it if you are actually turned out? They should be able to pick up on that vibe anyhow.
 

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Ever since puberty, I wake up with a boner every single day of my life and I get them randomly during the day sometimes.

Your problem is small, literally :crackup:

One morning, as I was asleep I felt something on top of me; it was my naked ex-gf riding me because "her friend was excited!" :rolleyes:

Man, I gotta get me a couple of new alarm clocks of that same kind.
 

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i used to get this too around this one girl.. could have been at the time. she was walking around in clubbing dresses. could be the fact i was really attracted to her.

either way. i only ever got it with her
 

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Man me too. Its awesome. Make sure you accentuate it when you sit down. Or when you pull her close to you, make sure she accidentally feels it with her hip or something.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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PapiChulo said:
Speaking of sexual state, I literally get a partial erection when talking to women who I am interested in out of lust only. I think they can sense that theres something going. Does that happen to you guys? Or I am just a horny bastard.
looooooooool XD
 
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