"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Getting dumped but still in contact

chevelle

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I had a girl basically dump me, but she still calls/text messages me sometimes. What is the deal with this? This is the first time this has ever happened to me, so i was wondering why she does it?

Her text messages are usually pretty flattering btw

thanks!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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sexy_kuta

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she likes ur attention
 

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she doesn't hate you. That's all it means.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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chevelle

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It's no big deal, i'm just curious that's all! I doubt i would ever date her again, but she is the first girl i've ever dated to do this. Most girls i date, when it's over--we never talk again!
 

kingofnewbie

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probably can't stand the fact that you are doing so well without her...just give her the finger lol
 

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It's a trick. Get an axe.
 

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chevelle said:
I had a girl basically dump me, but she still calls/text messages me sometimes. What is the deal with this? This is the first time this has ever happened to me, so i was wondering why she does it?

Her text messages are usually pretty flattering btw

thanks!
Stop being an idiot. This reminds me of my gf in 9th grade.

I want you to decide if you want this girl or not. If you do, then you tell her to figure out what she wants. You're going to tell her that there will be no more text messages, calls, etc., and that you aren't going to tolerate her playing around. You are going to tell her that the next call between you two is to set up a date together, period.

If you don't want this girl and want to move on (which you probably should), you're going to tell her straight out that the relationship is over, and that her "flattering messages" are unwanted.
 

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WORKEROUTER said:
Stop being an idiot. This reminds me of my gf in 9th grade.

I want you to decide if you want this girl or not. If you do, then you tell her to figure out what she wants. You're going to tell her that there will be no more text messages, calls, etc., and that you aren't going to tolerate her playing around. You are going to tell her that the next call between you two is to set up a date together, period.

If you don't want this girl and want to move on (which you probably should), you're going to tell her straight out that the relationship is over, and that her "flattering messages" are unwanted.
Took the words out of my mouth. Totally agree.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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