"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Getting dumped but still in contact

chevelle

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I had a girl basically dump me, but she still calls/text messages me sometimes. What is the deal with this? This is the first time this has ever happened to me, so i was wondering why she does it?

Her text messages are usually pretty flattering btw

thanks!
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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sexy_kuta

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she likes ur attention
 

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she doesn't hate you. That's all it means.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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chevelle

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It's no big deal, i'm just curious that's all! I doubt i would ever date her again, but she is the first girl i've ever dated to do this. Most girls i date, when it's over--we never talk again!
 

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probably can't stand the fact that you are doing so well without her...just give her the finger lol
 

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It's a trick. Get an axe.
 

WORKEROUTER

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chevelle said:
I had a girl basically dump me, but she still calls/text messages me sometimes. What is the deal with this? This is the first time this has ever happened to me, so i was wondering why she does it?

Her text messages are usually pretty flattering btw

thanks!
Stop being an idiot. This reminds me of my gf in 9th grade.

I want you to decide if you want this girl or not. If you do, then you tell her to figure out what she wants. You're going to tell her that there will be no more text messages, calls, etc., and that you aren't going to tolerate her playing around. You are going to tell her that the next call between you two is to set up a date together, period.

If you don't want this girl and want to move on (which you probably should), you're going to tell her straight out that the relationship is over, and that her "flattering messages" are unwanted.
 

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WORKEROUTER said:
Stop being an idiot. This reminds me of my gf in 9th grade.

I want you to decide if you want this girl or not. If you do, then you tell her to figure out what she wants. You're going to tell her that there will be no more text messages, calls, etc., and that you aren't going to tolerate her playing around. You are going to tell her that the next call between you two is to set up a date together, period.

If you don't want this girl and want to move on (which you probably should), you're going to tell her straight out that the relationship is over, and that her "flattering messages" are unwanted.
Took the words out of my mouth. Totally agree.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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