"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Getting down on one knee (proposal)

DEEZEDBRAH

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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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speed dawg

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I did not do the knee thing, I agree it's more modern day cuck behavior.

Someone posed this question to Playboy years ago. They said, "Around here, the women do the asking."
 

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I refuse to get down on a knee if I ever do ask a woman to be my wife. And I already have a family rock and ring that would only need to get resized, so I ain't paying ****.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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^^Exactly...this developed in an era when men were looked up to and respected for being a man.

Different story now, by a long shot.

Now, I'm guessing they see it as more submission to them. No, just...no.
 

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^^Exactly...this developed in an era when men were looked up to and respected for being a man.

Different story now, by a long shot.

Now, I'm guessing they see it as more submission to them. No, just...no.
Its like opening doors for many is viewed as submissive. Pulling chairs out. Taking coats. Helping with bills.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Its like opening doors for many is viewed as submissive. Pulling chairs out. Taking coats. Helping with bills.
IMO those can also be viewed as confidence and assertiveness, depending on how its done .


Id be interested how a man getting to a knee to ask for marriage is viewed by women, prob submission, then its a **** no!!!
 

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IMO those can also be viewed as confidence and assertiveness, depending on how its done .


Id be interested how a man getting to a knee to ask for marriage is viewed by women, prob submission, then its a **** no!!!
Depends upon the females. If her inner lady is a powerful bulldyke always grabbing and chipping masculinity it will be fed the attention of comptempt and disrespect.
 

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I've seen this getting down on the knees proposal at an international airport when I landed.

The girl was more embarrassed then excited by the conduct of her man's declaration of love.

Even I and others there felt somewhat amused by the whole shenanigan.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I refuse to get down on a knee if I ever do ask a woman to be my wife. And I already have a family rock and ring that would only need to get resized, so I ain't paying ****.
I don't see the value in it. I am raised Christian. I have understood the symbolism, tgat being, the holy trinity, and marriage being the unity of man and woman. That being the closest one can be eith God. Also, cyclical when considering the story of the removed rib, women and men becoming one unit.

Today is a circle jerk. A attention ***** ceremony as SMV craters. Yes, exception nay exist but what its become now and what it once was do not coincide.
 

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I absolutely despise this practice of going down on one knee. It’s the very picture of inferiority and begging.
Pareto distribution, 80/20. How very few percentage of men get the majority of women. The betas claim epiphany phase and cratered SMV.

Rollo is the godfather of red pill. He still married epiphany phase.

I don't get it?
 

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^^Exactly...this developed in an era when men were looked up to and respected for being a man.

Different story now, by a long shot.

Now, I'm guessing they see it as more submission to them. No, just...no.
I am big on psychedelics. On tripping. Its like a whole reset.

My ego is out of control lol

After a bender, this **** isn't even a afterthought. It doesn't matter. At all. On our death bed, feminists and female logic won't be a thought.

It aids in openess. A much higher degree of openess. Going out and getting baaaaae will red pill you. There's then a pragmatic approach to dating and relationships.

In a perfect ideal world, its happily ever after. IRL, there's 80% of women initiating divorce. There's no way to cross said Bridge without reform or avoidance all together.

A woman who trips, lifts, is seeking self knowledge, feminine, submissive, dtf and on early side of 20. Possible? Yes.

Will i swear away current and future earnings and sexual access? **** no.

New girls are turning 18 everyday.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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