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Senior Don Juan
I hope you try manual stretching before getting cut. Takes a while but it will work.
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
SmoothTalker said:I've heard of this before but never understood how it happens. Did you guys never play with yourself growing up?
Same, didn't do it till I was 17. Never had any problems till the 2-3 weeks before it pulled down all the way.SmoothTalker said:I've heard of this before but never understood how it happens. Did you guys never play with yourself growing up?
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Men! don't distort the bible. I don't recall anywhere it says getting circumcized is a sin. Why don't you back that claim with a verse. Thanks. Also it's interesting to learn that grown men today can have circumsicion without any real danger. In reference to my earlier post...perhaps the guy died because they didn't have the type of technology that we have today.I.A.F.Y.B. said:In the Bible getting circumsized is a sin and a jewish myth.
But, for the guy wanting to get his d!ck circumsized. What do you mean it is semi painful with intercourse? If there is no need for this operation. You are fine.