"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Getting "Checked"

Pimpology101

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Hey DJs I was wondering if theres a way to ask a girl nicely to get checked for STDs.... This girl has slept with 1 guy that had sex with more than 3 girls so I just want to be sure. Do you know where you can get tested also? -Thx
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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GaryNas

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If she's on the pill then I *believe* she gets tested every 6 months or so... (pap test?). That's how it is with my gf at least...
 

Disco

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Man that's not a lot of people. Then again I'm a dirty person.
 

Shot Callin

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That does not sound like a lot, but if you are concerned just look up "STI testing x" in Google. X being your city.

Most cities have free health clinics. Maybe you could get yourself tested, and say you feel much better about it, knowing you have no problems. Then you could tell her that sometimes girls can have an sti and show no symptoms. If left untreated they might not be able to have kids later. Which is true, but might be enough to get her to go do it.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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