"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Getting "Checked"

Pimpology101

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Hey DJs I was wondering if theres a way to ask a girl nicely to get checked for STDs.... This girl has slept with 1 guy that had sex with more than 3 girls so I just want to be sure. Do you know where you can get tested also? -Thx
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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GaryNas

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If she's on the pill then I *believe* she gets tested every 6 months or so... (pap test?). That's how it is with my gf at least...
 

Disco

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Man that's not a lot of people. Then again I'm a dirty person.
 

Shot Callin

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That does not sound like a lot, but if you are concerned just look up "STI testing x" in Google. X being your city.

Most cities have free health clinics. Maybe you could get yourself tested, and say you feel much better about it, knowing you have no problems. Then you could tell her that sometimes girls can have an sti and show no symptoms. If left untreated they might not be able to have kids later. Which is true, but might be enough to get her to go do it.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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