"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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getting bigger arms while reducing the abs

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hiyo!

i've been lifting weights regulary for around 11 months, now that year 11 has finished and resumes on the 15th of Feb, I do weights at home.

I have a bar, dumbells and one of those stretchy things that prison guys use :woo:
I can add weight to the bar, so i've got stuff like arms and back covered.

I do pushups to help keep my chest in abit of shape (seeing as I dont have access to a proper gym with bench etc.) and also situps / crunches / russian twists for my abs.

I'm pretty happy with my body since I started doing gym, what i'd like to do is gain more mass on my arms, while trying to really get a 6pack to come through on my abs.

And also how much should I eat? What foods should I avoid / eat lots of?

What's the best way to go about this? Since last week i've been adding heavy weight to the bar when I do curls so I struggle to curl it 8 times. High weight + low reps = more mass?

And whats the best way to get that 6pack look on my chest?

Help appriciated guys, ta!
 
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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You need to do abs exercise, and get your diet in place while doing moderate to high intensity cardio work, you have to shed that bodyfat in order for your six pack to show.
 

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Okay, first off I don't mean to be a pr!ck but you're asking some basic questions which are covered in DIESEL's stickies - even though I disagree with him on a few points. The information is still there though.

I'll just say get out of the 'arms and abs' mentality, because firstly, it doesn't get you anywhere, and secondly, well, it makes you look a bit daft (not to put too fine a point on it). Work out your WHOLE body (legs included) and you'll find gains come a helluva quicker.

To add an inch on your arms you need to add 20lbs of bodyweight (sometimes more, sometimes less depending on your genetics) - how long are you gonna need to put size on your arms doing just curls (answer: years)? On the other hand, do some heavy compounds like life-or-death deadlifts or widowmaker squats and your body will be terrified into producing lean tissue; you could have that extra inch on your guns in a month or three.

Okay, the rest of your questions are covered in Diesel's stickies.

(and yes, you CAN get bigger and leaner at the same time, don't anyone tell you different)
 

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Thanks Warboss, will check that sticky out now (should have before I posted but meh)

Thanks dude :cool:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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