"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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kickureface

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i have some belly fat and some fat legs, but my upper body is pretty lean. im kinda like a beer bottle shape. obviously, i want to lose that fat. but i also want to get some muscle too. im not a skinny guy, im toned/fat, if you know what i mean.

should i work on cutting down first then build up or build up then cut down?
what are hte advantages and disadvatnages of either?

oh, and i want to keep lifting weights either path i take. is this feasible?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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yes you can keep lifting weights regardless of wether you want to cut the fat or put on lean mass.

lifting weights while you are cutting fat will allow you to retain your muscles and even gain a bit more (if you are new to bodybuilding).

if you want to go straight to bulking, that would be great too, it all comes down to whats important to you right now.
 

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I'm cutting up right now. Main thing in the gym is I keep my reps mid to high range (12 - 16), and allow 30 seconds or less in between sets. This lets you maintain a faster heartbeat through the exercise, and in turn burns fat also. My meals are high in protein, low in carbs and sugar. Of course there are other guidelines to follow, but that is the meat of what you're going to need to do if you want to cut up and still maintain muscle.
 

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It's no myth that an increased heart rate will result in burning more calories. With less rest between sets, you do achieve a higher heart rate. I've heard many different ways of cutting up.. there's always one constant though; you need cardio or at least to simulate cardio during a work out.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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