"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Getting better results when heavier and relatively "fatter"?

Herb

Herb

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I had better results when I was twenty to third pounds heavier, partly due to creatine and gym. But I'm only 150 now (pretty toned/muscular but it's hard to see unless I wear tight clothes; winter ain't good for me).

Face supersedes physique. Commit to the acts which make your face look best.
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Hmm. Despite the fact that I have a "cute" face or whatever, I feel like many women see me as too small and maybe not super masculine. I look really young and always get carded for tobacco products even though I'm ten years older than that. Most women check me out and show IOIs, but maybe more in a "aww how adorable kind of way"... as opposed to like "damn that's sexy"; maybe my aura or expression or composure or overall look is too juvenile and innocent and boyish (some people have told me I often have the expression of a scared rabbit, and past girlfriends always compared me to puppies); I don't look like the kind of guy that would grab a girl, pin her down on a table, and get rough with her; rather I look like the kind of guy girls may want to laze around with on a fluffy bed or hammock while playing guitar or reciting poetry or something... totally different fantasy. Because despite all this obvious interest, when it comes down to it, I have friends who are less facially attractive, but otherwise more masculine (and who in normal daytime hours don't get much attention or interest from chicks) actually getting approached and sometimes doing better in bar/club settings at night. I've seen chicks direct their attention at me first for a while, and then it's almost like I can see them deciding, "nah, I don't think this kid's got it in him, or got what I want tonight", and then move on to them lol. In college I got approached a lot but not as much in this age level, even though I barely changed in my appearance since then.

One of the benefits to having a ***** face with big eyes is that I can get concessions out of girls that I'm with by making certain faces.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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