Getting back with ex? Possible?

[viking22]

I sort of ended up talking to my ex girlfriend as we bumped into each other after not seeing each other for six months. There still seemed to be some chemistry between us and I found myself fancying her again.

It was a weird break up because she did not stop liking me as such, she just has commitment issues and felt it was becoming too much and was going through a rough patch at the time.

She says she wants to be friends. But I know it is because she saw our break up as an indication that she cannot do relationships and thinks the same would happen if we dated again.

I really want to change her mind but know if I push she is going to just get scared away.

Should I be friends with her? I know deep down I want to get back together with her. But if we were friends for a while is there a chance she'd relax around me and since the chemistry seems to still be there something would happen naturally.

Not sure what to do really but want to give it one last go before moving on for good. Although there are lots of hot girls out there and I've been back in the game and having fun, I miss her and she made me happy in a way other girls do not

 

[DJDamage]

It was a weird break up because she did not stop liking me as such, she just has commitment issues and felt it was becoming too much and was going through a rough patch at the time.

Is that what she told you? and you believed her?

The real reason: She didn't want to commit to you because she didn't like you as much and was waiting for a better deal out there.

She says she wants to be friends. But I know it is because she saw our break up as an indication that she cannot do relationships and thinks the same would happen if we dated again.

She just want to be friends. She is the one that dumped you and wants you to be her friend so she won't feel as guilty for dumping you. This way you can be her little 'neutered pet' where you are going to be there to entertain her but not to fvck her. That job will belong to the next guy.

I really want to change her mind but know if I push she is going to just get scared away.

You can't change her mind since she already made up her mind 6 months ago about you.

Should I be friends with her? I know deep down I want to get back together with her. But if we were friends for a while is there a chance she'd relax around me and since the chemistry seems to still be there something would happen naturally.

Going through the friend route path is like struggling through quick sand. The more you try the more you are going to sink in! You need to read the DJ Bible.

Not sure what to do really but want to give it one last go before moving on for good. Although there are lots of hot girls out there and I've been back in the game and having fun, I miss her and she made me happy in a way other girls do not

You have oneitis for this girl, you need to move on and not waste your time with her because there are plenty of girls who are available right now and you will miss your oppertuinty with them if you chase this loss cause.

 

[mrRuckus]

She just want to be friends. She is the one that dumped you and wants you to be her friend so she won't feel as guilty for dumping you. This way you can be her little 'neutered pet' where you are going to be there to entertain her but not to fvck her. That job will belong to the next guy.

I absolutely knocked my ex on her ass when we broke up and i told her i have no intention of being friends with her.

She's STILL trying to keep in contact with me and it's been 8 months and she's with another guy.

Girls are dumb. You wanted to break up, fine... good, we're broken up. Go have a life without me.