"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Getting back into it

Mex

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I used to be in great shape in high school (used to play sports), and beginning of college, but not big. I became a slob - well not completely - but the beer belly is here. Now I am 28, weigh 148 and am 5-7. I dont know my bf, but it cant be too high.

Anyway, I have been researching lately, and there is just so much info, what works, what doesnt work, and what some people say works others dont and vice-versa. Also, I have read some journals on here, but I have not noticed any patterns as to what routines have worked for beginners who are over 25 (I assume it must be different for younger guys so correct me if I am wrong). I have been doing isolation exercises, and it seems that most people here do not recommend this as a way to build mass.

My goal is to get my body weight up to 165-170 (add 25 lbs of muscle). I have never done deadlifts, cleans, or anything similar, but it seems that this is what peolpe here like doing.

Here is my current diet (daily)

2-3eggs (sometimes with wheat bread)
Mixed nuts about 3-4 oz
1/2 gallon water
tuna or chicken salad sandwich (on wheat)
fruit either apple or grapes or banana
6 oz 80% ground beef;OR 3-4 chicken legs (not both)
2-3 oz pasta with tomato sauce, onion, garlic; OR rice; OR potato
random veggies like spinach, broccoli, etc
I do cheat and have a few cookies each week, and a few beers.

I am going to start protein shakes (feel free to recommend) but not sure about other supplements. I am a poor grad student, so any cheap alternatives are appreciated.

Basically, I would like some advice as to where to start. You dont have to suggest an actual routine (although I would appreciate it) but just direct me to a place that is credible. As I said, different places say different things, so I would like advice from people with experience, and not trying to sell something.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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EFFORT

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check out where to start at the top
 

Mex

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I just checked out the StrongLifts 5x5 program. Has anyone here used it?
 
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