"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Getting back into it

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I used to be in great shape in high school (used to play sports), and beginning of college, but not big. I became a slob - well not completely - but the beer belly is here. Now I am 28, weigh 148 and am 5-7. I dont know my bf, but it cant be too high.

Anyway, I have been researching lately, and there is just so much info, what works, what doesnt work, and what some people say works others dont and vice-versa. Also, I have read some journals on here, but I have not noticed any patterns as to what routines have worked for beginners who are over 25 (I assume it must be different for younger guys so correct me if I am wrong). I have been doing isolation exercises, and it seems that most people here do not recommend this as a way to build mass.

My goal is to get my body weight up to 165-170 (add 25 lbs of muscle). I have never done deadlifts, cleans, or anything similar, but it seems that this is what peolpe here like doing.

Here is my current diet (daily)

2-3eggs (sometimes with wheat bread)
Mixed nuts about 3-4 oz
1/2 gallon water
tuna or chicken salad sandwich (on wheat)
fruit either apple or grapes or banana
6 oz 80% ground beef;OR 3-4 chicken legs (not both)
2-3 oz pasta with tomato sauce, onion, garlic; OR rice; OR potato
random veggies like spinach, broccoli, etc
I do cheat and have a few cookies each week, and a few beers.

I am going to start protein shakes (feel free to recommend) but not sure about other supplements. I am a poor grad student, so any cheap alternatives are appreciated.

Basically, I would like some advice as to where to start. You dont have to suggest an actual routine (although I would appreciate it) but just direct me to a place that is credible. As I said, different places say different things, so I would like advice from people with experience, and not trying to sell something.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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EFFORT

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check out where to start at the top
 

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I just checked out the StrongLifts 5x5 program. Has anyone here used it?
 
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