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Getting back into it

cuzza

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Hey, wondering if anyones got any advice...

Basically I've just finished my first year of university so I'm obviously physically dead. Very little activity, like a 5 aside game every other week. Appalling diet - 2 meals a day max, ready meals. Ridiculous sleeping 'patterns', getting up at like 4 in the afternoon every day. And heavy, heavy drinking.

Which all in all, has led to me losing all strength and endurance, and putting on near a stone (12 pounds) in weight. So not happy.

I'm not looking for how I coulda done things differently in uni (because I wouldn't ;)), I'm looking for the best way to get back into things and get some strength and fitness back over the summer.

Worked out for the first time in like 6 months last Sunday... that was a week ago, and I'm still killing from it. And after like my first set, my strength just dipped ridiculously and I couldn't really do anything decent.

What's a good way of getting back into things? Should I work through the pain and try and get the work capacity back?



Cheers! :cool:
 

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cuzza said:
What's a good way of getting back into things?
Just do it.

cuzza said:
Should I work through the pain and try and get the work capacity back?
Yes.

Good luck.:up:
 

cuzza

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Haha fair play, Starting Strength and do it. Just wasn't sure if I should be easing back in or what... cheers
 
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