"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Getting back in the game

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EBickford

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ok, so have my first "date" since my nasty breakup a lil while back. im thinkin playing a lil pool, and telling her if she plays her cards right, we can grab a bite.

the beauty is that i met her through a friend, so i already got plenty of info on her. so i have a bit of an upperhand (what kind of food she likes the most, which happens to be mine).

i know i will want to grab food cuz 1. im always hungry 2. she is a real cool chick( we have hung in a group once), and i know she will be good company.

any tips/thoughts on my get together idea for someone just getting back into the game?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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base2ball2boy2

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1. Play it cool- no need to panic. If things don't work out, then "Así es la vida."

2. Have fun- If you don't enjoy yourself, then what's the point?


Go give'm hell.
 
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