"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Getting back in the game

EBickford

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ok, so have my first "date" since my nasty breakup a lil while back. im thinkin playing a lil pool, and telling her if she plays her cards right, we can grab a bite.

the beauty is that i met her through a friend, so i already got plenty of info on her. so i have a bit of an upperhand (what kind of food she likes the most, which happens to be mine).

i know i will want to grab food cuz 1. im always hungry 2. she is a real cool chick( we have hung in a group once), and i know she will be good company.

any tips/thoughts on my get together idea for someone just getting back into the game?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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base2ball2boy2

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1. Play it cool- no need to panic. If things don't work out, then "Así es la vida."

2. Have fun- If you don't enjoy yourself, then what's the point?


Go give'm hell.
 
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