"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Getting back in the game

EBickford

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ok, so have my first "date" since my nasty breakup a lil while back. im thinkin playing a lil pool, and telling her if she plays her cards right, we can grab a bite.

the beauty is that i met her through a friend, so i already got plenty of info on her. so i have a bit of an upperhand (what kind of food she likes the most, which happens to be mine).

i know i will want to grab food cuz 1. im always hungry 2. she is a real cool chick( we have hung in a group once), and i know she will be good company.

any tips/thoughts on my get together idea for someone just getting back into the game?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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base2ball2boy2

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1. Play it cool- no need to panic. If things don't work out, then "Así es la vida."

2. Have fun- If you don't enjoy yourself, then what's the point?


Go give'm hell.
 
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