"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Getting back in contact/Dealing with compliments

PeterCrouch

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2 part question this.

Firstly, what are peoples opinions and best ideas on getting back in contact with girls you havent seen/spoke too for a good few years. Really want to get in contact with one or two who despite having them on facebook, I haven't spoke to for a while now and probably because i've been reminded of them on facebook, i've started to think about trying to chat to them again. We live in different places now so the chances of bumping into them are pretty slim.

Also, as a side issue, how do people deal with compliments? For example, I've just had a new hair cuts and have recieved some compliments about it but I never know how to properly recieve a compliment like "Your hair looks good."

I'll search it aswell but how do you deal with compliments?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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sageproduct

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Can't go wrong with a simple smile and "thank you". Don't always have to say something witty.
 

arutha

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Just write on their wall on facebook.. Nothing wrong with that, its what the site is for. 'Hey haven't talked to you in ages, blah blah...'

Depends on the compliment. Simply accepting it is usually a good enough way, I sometimes like to make silly jokes about it though. For example
Her:Nice shirt!
Me: Thanks! I made it myself

And my favourite:
Her: You smell nice
Me: I taste even better ;)
 

King Turi

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To deal with compliments, I just say "cheers"..

As for chatting to people from your past on facebook, just send them a message sayin' "what's up?"
 

xdreamz

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*compliment*
why thank you that's very nice of you to say
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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