"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Getting back in contact/Dealing with compliments

PeterCrouch

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2 part question this.

Firstly, what are peoples opinions and best ideas on getting back in contact with girls you havent seen/spoke too for a good few years. Really want to get in contact with one or two who despite having them on facebook, I haven't spoke to for a while now and probably because i've been reminded of them on facebook, i've started to think about trying to chat to them again. We live in different places now so the chances of bumping into them are pretty slim.

Also, as a side issue, how do people deal with compliments? For example, I've just had a new hair cuts and have recieved some compliments about it but I never know how to properly recieve a compliment like "Your hair looks good."

I'll search it aswell but how do you deal with compliments?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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sageproduct

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Can't go wrong with a simple smile and "thank you". Don't always have to say something witty.
 

arutha

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Just write on their wall on facebook.. Nothing wrong with that, its what the site is for. 'Hey haven't talked to you in ages, blah blah...'

Depends on the compliment. Simply accepting it is usually a good enough way, I sometimes like to make silly jokes about it though. For example
Her:Nice shirt!
Me: Thanks! I made it myself

And my favourite:
Her: You smell nice
Me: I taste even better ;)
 

King Turi

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To deal with compliments, I just say "cheers"..

As for chatting to people from your past on facebook, just send them a message sayin' "what's up?"
 

xdreamz

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*compliment*
why thank you that's very nice of you to say
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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