"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Getting attractive women is a game, which is why they should be viewed as trash.

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Consent said:
The reality is that most women are trash. They all want equal rights as long as it doesn't infringe on their own benefits like having doors opened for them or expecting to have dinner paid. They are allowed to make jokes about men (on t-shirts, bumper stickers, emails, even in real life) but that's acceptable because it doesn't infringe on their own rights. What you need to do to get women is look at them like they are scum. Look down on them for what they are: hypocritical opportunists.

your an idiot.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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When I first came to this forum, I was a weak man looking for some *****. Then, when reality hit (i.e: a certain set of behaviors and beliefs will attract women), the whole 'game' seemed so petty and worthless to me that I gave up.

So I became the biggest jerk you'll ever meet. Blatant sexual c+f remarks, extreme demands on my part, anger, selfishness and cruel behavior. Result? A beautiful girlfriend and a fair share of **** buddies, not to mention a women who confessed she was gonna isolate me and make out with me a mere 20 minutes after meeting me.

This is the complete 180 of what i had before (i.e: no clue and no ***** within 100 mile radius).

Good going Consent, you got it right, they're crazy and not worth your time.
 

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You sound bitter... the secret isn't to view women with discontent, it's to have confidence in the package that you can offer these women, and to talk to them on a level... you're not too hooked up on what they think of you because you're happy, and hey there's a bunch of other options if this one chick doesn't like you

Its not her fault if you're unable to give a woman what she wants... ****, if a chick can't give me what I want I'll leave her too, and that's happened so many times... I think I want some secure girl, a good girl who'll do things for me, a couple months down the line I've had everything done for me and I'm bored out of my head... I want a girl who won't do everything for me, is a little wild and keeps me on the edge of my seat, not really offering a bunch of security...

You know, after 12 months on this forum and 12 months experience in the field you'll probably look back on this thread and realise exactly what it was you were missing...
 

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If you don't care about women...why do you want them?

Nobody can "not care" and get laid. If you don't care, you don't want sex. If you want sex, then you care.

Call it Logic.
 

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I get like that sometimes. My natural personality is fairly quiet and I guess I'm instinctively polite due to upbringing. Thus acting natural around women ends in them getting bored. Times when I say something outrageous or do something aggressive, I get big attraction from women. The trick is to act really macho.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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