"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Getting attractive women is a game, which is why they should be viewed as trash.

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Consent said:
The reality is that most women are trash. They all want equal rights as long as it doesn't infringe on their own benefits like having doors opened for them or expecting to have dinner paid. They are allowed to make jokes about men (on t-shirts, bumper stickers, emails, even in real life) but that's acceptable because it doesn't infringe on their own rights. What you need to do to get women is look at them like they are scum. Look down on them for what they are: hypocritical opportunists.

your an idiot.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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When I first came to this forum, I was a weak man looking for some *****. Then, when reality hit (i.e: a certain set of behaviors and beliefs will attract women), the whole 'game' seemed so petty and worthless to me that I gave up.

So I became the biggest jerk you'll ever meet. Blatant sexual c+f remarks, extreme demands on my part, anger, selfishness and cruel behavior. Result? A beautiful girlfriend and a fair share of **** buddies, not to mention a women who confessed she was gonna isolate me and make out with me a mere 20 minutes after meeting me.

This is the complete 180 of what i had before (i.e: no clue and no ***** within 100 mile radius).

Good going Consent, you got it right, they're crazy and not worth your time.
 

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You sound bitter... the secret isn't to view women with discontent, it's to have confidence in the package that you can offer these women, and to talk to them on a level... you're not too hooked up on what they think of you because you're happy, and hey there's a bunch of other options if this one chick doesn't like you

Its not her fault if you're unable to give a woman what she wants... ****, if a chick can't give me what I want I'll leave her too, and that's happened so many times... I think I want some secure girl, a good girl who'll do things for me, a couple months down the line I've had everything done for me and I'm bored out of my head... I want a girl who won't do everything for me, is a little wild and keeps me on the edge of my seat, not really offering a bunch of security...

You know, after 12 months on this forum and 12 months experience in the field you'll probably look back on this thread and realise exactly what it was you were missing...
 

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If you don't care about women...why do you want them?

Nobody can "not care" and get laid. If you don't care, you don't want sex. If you want sex, then you care.

Call it Logic.
 

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I get like that sometimes. My natural personality is fairly quiet and I guess I'm instinctively polite due to upbringing. Thus acting natural around women ends in them getting bored. Times when I say something outrageous or do something aggressive, I get big attraction from women. The trick is to act really macho.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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