Getting attraction FASTER?

[ElStud]

When I go up to most girls I notice one thing, the attraction just doesn't happen as fast as I want it to. I can go up to the girl, get interest, maybe a couple laughs but after that, nothing. I guess another question I'd like to ask is how do you keep a girl interested AFTER the initial approach. And a lot of times with girls, I don't even think they're attracted, just interested enough to talk back. I want to get to a sexual stage of attraction with girls QUICKER, hell maybe even off the opener. Right now when I open girls it's mostly just me making a comment or asking a question. I want to actual get her ATTRACTED, I want to get to a sexual stage, I want to move it beyond the level of just having a simple convo with them. My main problem is basically, sh*t isn't happening as fast as I want it to when I approach girls. Like I've seen how giddy girls get around guys they percieve as high value and well, I want to know how I can do that right off the opener.

 

[ElStud]

for you it's not a matter of attraction happening faster, it's a matter of it happening

Give advice please or refrain from posting.

 

[HandyAndy]

Give advice please or refrain from posting.

Hes right lol, we dont know how you look...post a pic. Maybe its your looks, maybe its something else. A video of you approaching would be a great tool for ppl on this site to start helping you out, becuase we give you adive but you dont take it

 

[mackdaknife]

You are mainly talking about what you say. However, most of attraction is non-verbal, non rational. If she likes your style, your face your physique and body language, you could talk about anything and get laid.

 

[ElStud]

You are mainly talking about what you say. However, most of attraction is non-verbal, non rational. If she likes your style, your face your physique and body language, you could talk about anything and get laid.

It could be non verbal lol, when I approach girls it's like I'm never truly having fun with them. Even when a girl APPROACHES ME though, I can't really do sh*t about it. For instance, Lauren girl opened a convo with me earlier today and this one Taneesha girl also later opened a convo with me. But I think TRULY having fun is my biggest problems and that it's my inner insecurities that keep me from truly having 100% fun. And I think part of that is because I still care too much about outcome.

 

[mackdaknife]

But to agree with another poster, it sounds like you are not getting attraction. So no point in trying to get it faster if you are not getting it at all.