"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Getting approached by fat chicks...

blueline

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Is generally a bad thing, right? The bizarre thing is that I generally get approached by an entirely mixed bag. Sometimes the girls are pretty hot, sometimes they aren't so hot, and sometimes they're pretty haggard.

It used to concern me a bit that I'm getting approached by beasts, because intuitively, I look at dating as a kind of exchange ("my hot body for your hot body/status" is what people are generally thinking) and if they think they have a shot at this kind of exchange with me, then it means they think I'm equivalent to them.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Wasabi_Master

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I dont think girls see it the same way, usually the fat chicks are aggressive. This happens to me too, fat chicks sometimes beg for my phone number...
i read somewhere on this site that when u look better (hit the gym) fat chicks will stop hitting on you and you will get better girls.... but takes time.
 

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So true Wasabi_Master. Just switch fat chicks with haggard chicks in that statement. Buff dudes get approached by fatties all the time because fat chicks wanna be tossed around too!
 

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blueline said:
Is generally a bad thing, right? The bizarre thing is that I generally get approached by an entirely mixed bag. Sometimes the girls are pretty hot, sometimes they aren't so hot, and sometimes they're pretty haggard.

It used to concern me a bit that I'm getting approached by beasts, because intuitively, I look at dating as a kind of exchange ("my hot body for your hot body/status" is what people are generally thinking) and if they think they have a shot at this kind of exchange with me, then it means they think I'm equivalent to them.
it dont really matter what you say to them, have some fun, (tho they may have a hot girlfreind who is nice ! )
read what tucker max does with uglies - jokingly insults them /"rude" c+f (tho they often still stay around)
you could even use the line u said "its an exchange, my hot body for your what? you dont have a hot body so what can u exchange... (inset more here)"
remeber Fat girls arnt real people :D
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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DonJuanit0

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kingsam said:
remeber Fat girls arnt real people :D
I fell off my chair! hahAHAhAHAHahahAHAHAHHAaHahah
You made my day!!
 

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Unattractive girls are just the same as guys with no game: once they get some alcohol on board, they'll think they look cute (or think they have game for the guys). And with all their stupid friends around to reinforce their belief, in no time they will be hunting around for fresh meat.

Stay away from the fatties! Even if they have hot friends, they are very territorial, and usually they already told their friends they want you, so the friends will not flirt with you. Instead, as you're working your game on her cute friend, you might just find yourself dragged into a corner of the club and rapped.

Beware of the fatties!
 

zekko

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Is generally a bad thing, right? The bizarre thing is that I generally get approached by an entirely mixed bag
I don't really think it's such a bad sign. I also tend to get approached by a very mixed bag. Here's what I've noticed about the fat girls. There are the quiet ones, with low self esteem - these tend not to approach you, they don't have the nerve.

Then there are loud ones, the aggressive ones, the ones that love to hear themselves talk. These are the ones who will approach you. They know they're most likely not going to get anywhere, but they try anyway. At least they get to interact with a hot guy for a little while even if they can't land him. They also have low self esteem but I think they thrive on the rejection. The worse you treat them the more they come back.
 

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Not that I'm into fat girls.

But I'd much rather be approached by fat girls than by fat guys.
 

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Kailex said:
Not that I'm into fat girls.

But I'd much rather be approached by fat girls than by fat guys.
I believe we, as men, are like this.

Fat girls will approach because they know they have few looks. They always do and they must when they feel they deserve a man.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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