You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
aww I shoulda done that =\ I just gave it to them, gave a hug then walked awayjust so suave said:ask for a reason why you should give them your numbermake sure there not a bunch of psycho stalkers
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Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
ya....sure......:crazy:noirsake said:heres what i would have probably done
gals "hi your cute." *hugs me*
me "what the hell are you doing? I dont know you. get away from me before i call security on your lonley asses! christ trying to touch me inappropriately and of all the places!"
gals *shocked*
me "so how many of you are registered sex offenders?"
gals *the omg i cant believe you said that look*
me *picks one and points* "ya, you look like you just molested an entire preschool of children!"
and so on
lolsuperchill89 said:what i would've done
girl: "hi you're cute" *hugs me*
me: ur cute too, lets go back to my car
we then proceed to walk to the car and i bang her brains out
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Don't be sad. They probably did this in the whole mall and didn't call anyone, or they could have been playing "Dare" or something.Thai Foon said:update: never got called =(
I nominate this for post of the month!superchill89 said:what i would've done
girl: "hi you're cute" *hugs me*
me: ur cute too, lets go back to my car
we then proceed to walk to the car and i bang her brains out
Hahahaha! That's probably how a lotta women would respond if a guy did that to them randomly at the mall!noirsake said:gals "hi your cute." *hugs me*
me "what the hell are you doing? I dont know you. get away from me before i call security on your lonley asses! christ trying to touch me inappropriately and of all the places!"
gals *shocked*
me "so how many of you are registered sex offenders?"
gals *the omg i cant believe you said that look*
me *picks one and points* "ya, you look like you just molested an entire preschool of children!"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.