"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Getting approached at the mall..

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Thai Foon

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if a group of girls approaches you and asks for your number (and hugs), are they actually gunna call or just messing around?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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ask for a reason why you should give them your number :p make sure there not a bunch of psycho stalkers :D
 
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just so suave said:
ask for a reason why you should give them your number :p make sure there not a bunch of psycho stalkers :D
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aww I shoulda done that =\ I just gave it to them, gave a hug then walked away
 
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heres what i would have probably done

gals "hi your cute." *hugs me*
me "what the hell are you doing? I dont know you. get away from me before i call security on your lonley asses! christ trying to touch me inappropriately and of all the places!"
gals *shocked*
me "so how many of you are registered sex offenders?"
gals *the omg i cant believe you said that look*
me *picks one and points* "ya, you look like you just molested an entire preschool of children!"

and so on
 
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this chick about 8 yrs older than me was at this store yesterday, I was with my cousin (a girl) shes HOT (my cousin) no incest, anyways it was awesome social proof to walk around with her, so Im sitting and theres this older girl and she starts moving her shoulders like dancing cause theres this weird shirt shes looking at that looks liek a dancing shirt then she looks at me and smiles, extremely hot, thats my story. avoid asking why I was in a womens clothes store
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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i am me

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noirsake said:
heres what i would have probably done

gals "hi your cute." *hugs me*
me "what the hell are you doing? I dont know you. get away from me before i call security on your lonley asses! christ trying to touch me inappropriately and of all the places!"
gals *shocked*
me "so how many of you are registered sex offenders?"
gals *the omg i cant believe you said that look*
me *picks one and points* "ya, you look like you just molested an entire preschool of children!"

and so on
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ya....sure......:crazy:
 
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superchill89 said:
what i would've done

girl: "hi you're cute" *hugs me*
me: ur cute too, lets go back to my car
we then proceed to walk to the car and i bang her brains out
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lol
 
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it all depends, howmany strange girls that you dont know do this often? not many
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Thai Foon said:
update: never got called =(
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Don't be sad. They probably did this in the whole mall and didn't call anyone, or they could have been playing "Dare" or something.
 
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Ironically yesterday I told a hot friend of mine who had no social life with guys because her parents were extremely over protective (she was even homeschooled. and yeah i know, sexy and no social life with guys...it just doesn't make sense) to go to the mall and talk to random guys she thought were cute...I know she didn't though..she's too ***** lol.
 
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In a situation like this if they don't call what have you lost? I'd just be like 'oh right, that was weird' and get on with my life.
 
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noirsake said:
gals "hi your cute." *hugs me*
me "what the hell are you doing? I dont know you. get away from me before i call security on your lonley asses! christ trying to touch me inappropriately and of all the places!"
gals *shocked*
me "so how many of you are registered sex offenders?"
gals *the omg i cant believe you said that look*
me *picks one and points* "ya, you look like you just molested an entire preschool of children!"
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Hahahaha! That's probably how a lotta women would respond if a guy did that to them randomly at the mall!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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ROFL. I had a girl hit on me. Long story short, I bought her a sprite at a carnival (where I met her) like she wanted. After that, I got "her" phone number, called "her" and turns out I called her boyfriend.


Point is: if you want to know a girl is serious, ask for her phone number. I think you have a better chance of not getting played if you make the move rather then let her make the move. I know it's great to the ego, and I know it's easier if you let her do the hard stuff, but it's usually doesn't turn out pretty.

She could also not have the balls to call you, which is normal. I know I'd do the same thing as you if I were in the situation, but when you take the emotions out of it, you probably realize that this isn't looking too good and that the best thing you can do is move on quick.
 
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You musta had a rabbits foot or something on your c0ck dude...wish they'd do the approaching more often:p
 
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