"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Getting a Virgin to Have Sex?

foomee

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This girl I've been hooking up with the past few weeks, she says she's a virgin and wants to wait until she's married. The furthest I've gone was have it in there about an inch and I'd try to go further but she'd push me back out and say no. I've fingered her and everything and I think she really likes me. I want to take it a step forward, but don't know how to. One of my friends told me to try saying to her, "I think we're ready". I've never dealt with a virgin, so I thought it'd be fun. Any advice?
 

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Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Well next time you put it a little ways in pretend you tripped and have it go all the way in.

You can then apologize to her and explained you slipped.

She might be mad at first but if it felt good to her she'll remember this and may let you pound away sooner rather than later the next time you meet.

Another thing you could do is act like you have to leave whenever she does this or make her feel really good and turned on but whenever she denies you of what you want you either stop the sex stuff completely or you don't do whatever it is that made her feel so good sexually as good as you normally would.

You can condition and train her that if she wants to feel good all the time she better start letting you do what you want to do or else you'll tease her into insanity lol.
 

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KontrollerX said:
Another thing you could do is act like you have to leave whenever she does this or make her feel really good and turned on but whenever she denies you of what you want you either stop the sex stuff completely or you don't do whatever it is that made her feel so good sexually as good as you normally would.


One thing I was trying was while fingering her get her to a point where she's going crazy and can't get enough and pull my finger out and keep my penis near there and she'd grab it and put it in a little. I think I'll also keep that strategy up.
 

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Tricky one this.

Ignore her cr@p about waiting till marriage. Sounds like if your almost in there she wont wait anyhow, and if you respect it she'l only get round to doing it with some other bloke.

You do need to play this one strategic without upsetting her too much. Does she have any female friends that she talks to that like sex? if so, they will tell her how good it starts to feel and she will get curious and eventually go for it.

Best advice is to keep progressing things slowly until she loosens up to the idea. try to encourage her in a non pressured way about how its a natural thing to do, and after a bit its better than chocalate ha. oh and its great exercise too. Tell her stuff like you respect her for having values, and you think it will make your relationship stronger, and you will both feel closer together after.

you need to talk women talk to get her to put out the first time. after that its smooth sailing. go easy on her the first time, and yea stop doing everything she wants until you get some of what you want.

make sense? I hope she's worth all this effort my man. :cool:
 

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foomee said:
This girl I've been hooking up with the past few weeks, she says she's a virgin and wants to wait until she's married. The furthest I've gone was have it in there about an inch and I'd try to go further but she'd push me back out and say no. I've fingered her and everything and I think she really likes me. I want to take it a step forward, but don't know how to. One of my friends told me to try saying to her, "I think we're ready". I've never dealt with a virgin, so I thought it'd be fun. Any advice?
well if she let you stick it in an inch, that means shes no longer a virgin. plus, why would she let you keep doing these attempts if she really wanted you to wait??? i smell anti-slut defense...:up:
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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