“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Getting a second chance after becoming more masculine

mrgoodstuff

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Why is getting ripped good? I genuinely mean that. I know that exercise is good for us (that's why I do it), but I fail to see the reasoning behind the overused "just get ripped bro" that's constantly being thrown around here.
It's good for your mind to be in your physical prime. Why clean your car or house? Why upgrade your cars appearance or performance? Why do upgrades and additions to your home? Your body goes everywhere with you and it houses your mind.
 
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Poonani Maker

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The ONLY way you take her back is if she crawls up on you and tries to peel off your clothes and mounts you in cowgirl. Leading up to that, bringing/making you hand-made "gifts," cards, whatever, food, cupcakes, birthday cakes. Even still, it's like "get off me b!tch..."
 

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It's good for your mind to be in your physical prime. Why clean your car or house? Why upgrade your cars appearance or performance? Why do upgrades and additions to your home? Your body goes everywhere with you and it houses your mind.
This is the best reasoning I've heard so far. Cheers @mrgoodstuff, you are a gentleman and a scholar.
 

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If you managed to do all that, your mindset would change and you wouldn’t be looking for second chances.

The entire mosaic changes. That chick you thought was a potential mate suddenly becomes ordinary, needy, and repulsive once you change your vibe to being self validated.

Then when you slip up, that needy and repulsive chick suddenly seems like a good catch again.

It’s called wavelength. It’s not possible to go through self improvement and then seek the validation from the same women. They will no longer be in your wavelength. Their flaws will jump out at you.

You change yourself and outlook and your tastes will also change. The mosaic of attraction changes along with you.
nice, this is true. how would we write this in only one sentence; fewest words?
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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