"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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getting a life..?

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This has bothered me for quite a while. What does it exactly mean to "have a life"? Just going chilling at the park? skating? hanging out with friends?

I dont sit at home all day, I skate, go to the gym, play guitar and chill with friends, but all of this still leaves me with at least 3 hours of free time every day, considering it is the summer now and I have tons of time on my hands. I am considering starting paintballing and surfing to fill my days.

So, what does having a life mean and how can a person have so much activities that he has no free time whatso ever?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Getting a life is just that. Going out. Being active. Learning about everything u can. All the things u do are great! But one thing you should concider is doing things where a lot of girls are present... like clubbing, or dancing. THings that u can do when u go out and meet girls while you are doing it.

Surfing rocks! Chicks dig surfers...


Where do you surf? The only good places i know are out in ORANGE COUNTY...
 
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I live in los angeles too. But like, I dont really know of a good spot around here. Ahh... oh well.. i guess ill just stick to my faves...
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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zuma beach?? how do i get there???
 
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Life starts by posting in the right forum. Moved to High School.
 
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