"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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getting a job at hooters?

jenzos

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getting a job at...

hooters. how beneficial woudl this be? getting to learn how to talk to hot girls all day?

It's a skill thats what we all must get. why not get thrown into the lions den and have to learn. haha

Thinking about doing it. After school, weekends. Everyone there is super chill..

anyone else have a job like this?

edit: Id be doing stupid work. like cleaning / dishes etc.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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oakraiderz2

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how old are you?
 

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I would assume you had to be 18 to work there. I agree you would be DUMPED into a world with HOT women.....naturally you would become comfortable with them....your fears of HOT women would decrease.

This would be benifical to sarging because not many women are as hot as hooter women....so most girls on the street you will be comfortable talking and approaching

Smooth
 

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I actually got a great job...I'm a "To-GO" guy at Ruby Tuesdays in my mall. What this is is that I deliver food in the mall only to people which means i pretty mcuh get paid to wlak around the mall all day. now thats sweet.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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qweretyuiopas

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Originally posted by toddC
I actually got a great job...I'm a "To-GO" guy at Ruby Tuesdays in my mall. What this is is that I deliver food in the mall only to people which means i pretty mcuh get paid to wlak around the mall all day. now thats sweet.
Gimme your job!
 

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Hooter is a cess pool of girls that don't have enough self confidence to become strippers. From what i've seen a lot of them are ugly. But i mean if it helps you ... go for it
 

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hooters puts alot of guys to work in the back doing dishes or cooking. if you dont want to do that, only apply to be a waiter or busboy.
 

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Originally posted by penkitten
hooters puts alot of guys to work in the back doing dishes or cooking. if you dont want to do that, only apply to be a waiter or busboy.
No offense, but you've eaten at Hooters before, right? I mean, if you had you'd know that the only places a guy will be is behind the counter. The whole point of Hooters is to have girls catering to your every need - which means all-female waitresses, who also bus the tables after you're done eating.

Anyway, I digress. I have numerous friends who work at Hooters, and two or three guy friends who have worked there before in the kitchen (which like I mentioned earlier is the only place you'll be). If you start working there you'll first begin by learning how wash the dishes. Then after a few months of that, you'll be entrusted to putting a leaf of lettuce onto a plate to serve as a bed for the cooks chicken strips. Then, several weeks after that you'll graduate to learning how to count 8 celery slices and put them on a plate. During this whole time you'll still be doing dishes when you aren't counting or cutting celery and placing lettuce leafs on plates. Perhaps in 6 months you might be entrusted to the fryer, where you'll learn how to batter, fry, and sauce the chicken wings, shrimp, chicken tenders, fish, and everything else.

Yeah, it's a cool job because you're surrounded by attractive girls (depending on the quality of your store/s), but don't expect your confidence to jump in leaps and bounds. Also, don't think that just because you work there you're going to be getting invites to go out every weekend, especially considering you're just 16. Girls there are like girls anywhere else - if you don't know what to do, and don't do it right, you're not going to get very far at all. I've been around when a friend or two has seen a guy who works in the kitchen, and while they're nice to their face after he leaves they're like "yuck". Then again, it shouldn't be very surprising that girls are for the most part two-faced.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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