"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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getting a job at hooters?

jenzos

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getting a job at...

hooters. how beneficial woudl this be? getting to learn how to talk to hot girls all day?

It's a skill thats what we all must get. why not get thrown into the lions den and have to learn. haha

Thinking about doing it. After school, weekends. Everyone there is super chill..

anyone else have a job like this?

edit: Id be doing stupid work. like cleaning / dishes etc.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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oakraiderz2

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how old are you?
 

Smooth Player 056

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I would assume you had to be 18 to work there. I agree you would be DUMPED into a world with HOT women.....naturally you would become comfortable with them....your fears of HOT women would decrease.

This would be benifical to sarging because not many women are as hot as hooter women....so most girls on the street you will be comfortable talking and approaching

Smooth
 

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I actually got a great job...I'm a "To-GO" guy at Ruby Tuesdays in my mall. What this is is that I deliver food in the mall only to people which means i pretty mcuh get paid to wlak around the mall all day. now thats sweet.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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qweretyuiopas

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Originally posted by toddC
I actually got a great job...I'm a "To-GO" guy at Ruby Tuesdays in my mall. What this is is that I deliver food in the mall only to people which means i pretty mcuh get paid to wlak around the mall all day. now thats sweet.
Gimme your job!
 

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Hooter is a cess pool of girls that don't have enough self confidence to become strippers. From what i've seen a lot of them are ugly. But i mean if it helps you ... go for it
 

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hooters puts alot of guys to work in the back doing dishes or cooking. if you dont want to do that, only apply to be a waiter or busboy.
 

diablo

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Originally posted by penkitten
hooters puts alot of guys to work in the back doing dishes or cooking. if you dont want to do that, only apply to be a waiter or busboy.
No offense, but you've eaten at Hooters before, right? I mean, if you had you'd know that the only places a guy will be is behind the counter. The whole point of Hooters is to have girls catering to your every need - which means all-female waitresses, who also bus the tables after you're done eating.

Anyway, I digress. I have numerous friends who work at Hooters, and two or three guy friends who have worked there before in the kitchen (which like I mentioned earlier is the only place you'll be). If you start working there you'll first begin by learning how wash the dishes. Then after a few months of that, you'll be entrusted to putting a leaf of lettuce onto a plate to serve as a bed for the cooks chicken strips. Then, several weeks after that you'll graduate to learning how to count 8 celery slices and put them on a plate. During this whole time you'll still be doing dishes when you aren't counting or cutting celery and placing lettuce leafs on plates. Perhaps in 6 months you might be entrusted to the fryer, where you'll learn how to batter, fry, and sauce the chicken wings, shrimp, chicken tenders, fish, and everything else.

Yeah, it's a cool job because you're surrounded by attractive girls (depending on the quality of your store/s), but don't expect your confidence to jump in leaps and bounds. Also, don't think that just because you work there you're going to be getting invites to go out every weekend, especially considering you're just 16. Girls there are like girls anywhere else - if you don't know what to do, and don't do it right, you're not going to get very far at all. I've been around when a friend or two has seen a guy who works in the kitchen, and while they're nice to their face after he leaves they're like "yuck". Then again, it shouldn't be very surprising that girls are for the most part two-faced.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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