"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Getting a group of people closer?

War Against Betaism

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So at my school I'm part of a club and the club is split up in "families". I'm the head of my family and each family head is in charge of getting everyone closer together. So far everyone is cool with each other, but that's as far as it goes. Everyone in my family only sees each other during meetings and events but they aren't really close. I really want to get everyone in my family to be closer, though I'm not sure how I'm going to tackle this. I tried setting up little fun activities and play some games, but so far I feel like I haven't progressed.

Any suggestions?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Get everybody together, get fking wasted and take pics, post on facebook an friend everybody up (suggest them as friends to eachother etc). and just comment the **** out of everybodys profiles encourage them to do the same.
 

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Yeah that's a good idea. Come to think of it, that's basically how I got close to my current group of friends right now. Alcohol does wonders.
 

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Interact outside of school. Arrange activities at your house so it's more personal. Include alcohol and you will have some bonding moments. I've done it recently with a small divided fraternity and brought everyone closer together.
 
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