"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

Read more...

Getting a group of people closer?

War Against Betaism

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 19, 2007
Messages
1,600
Reaction score
28
Location
California
So at my school I'm part of a club and the club is split up in "families". I'm the head of my family and each family head is in charge of getting everyone closer together. So far everyone is cool with each other, but that's as far as it goes. Everyone in my family only sees each other during meetings and events but they aren't really close. I really want to get everyone in my family to be closer, though I'm not sure how I'm going to tackle this. I tried setting up little fun activities and play some games, but so far I feel like I haven't progressed.

Any suggestions?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

Read more...

Julian

Banned
Joined
Jul 30, 2003
Messages
4,754
Reaction score
1,216
Get everybody together, get fking wasted and take pics, post on facebook an friend everybody up (suggest them as friends to eachother etc). and just comment the **** out of everybodys profiles encourage them to do the same.
 

War Against Betaism

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 19, 2007
Messages
1,600
Reaction score
28
Location
California
Yeah that's a good idea. Come to think of it, that's basically how I got close to my current group of friends right now. Alcohol does wonders.
 

mpimpin

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 26, 2006
Messages
1,746
Reaction score
14
Location
Bama
Interact outside of school. Arrange activities at your house so it's more personal. Include alcohol and you will have some bonding moments. I've done it recently with a small divided fraternity and brought everyone closer together.
 
Top