"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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getting a girl's number thru a friend?

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Made a few cool guy friends this semester in one class. Sameclass had a very pretty extremely cute white 9.5 girl.

Never bothered talking to her until today. Problem? Today was the last day of classes.

We talked good for around 30minute, about the exam, college. And jobs etc. Then walked each other to the bus stops

I forgot to ask her for her number, but one of the guy friends is her friend and I can ask him for her number.

1. should I ask him for her number?
2. How should I text her so I don't come off creepy? Nothing wrong with getting a girls number this way right?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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LOL she will think you are and ask how did you get my number?

you never even talked to her until today

thats your own fault for forgetting to get it
 
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Tell him to relay the message. Don't ask for her number directly, but if he knows her, have him say "He's interested, didn't want to creep you out by calling without proper consent first."

If he agrees, that's your best chance. If he doesn't, smack him in the throat, knock him on his ass and kick snow on him. Ask him if he knows who the alpha is. Thought so.
 
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Missed your chance. No point in asking for her number she find you creepy. Oh well live and learn we all miss chances but we wake up and.more are put in front of our face. Just notice them and act
Good luck man
 
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I did something like this....but never talk to the girl before i asked her friend for the number. She already knows who you are and you have talked to her i think she is going to wonder why didnt you ask for it when you had the chance? Or if she is really interested she will give it to him
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Always, always ask yourself. It eliminates the creepy, stalker vibe. You can try to go for it, but be prepared to take a hit.
 
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Nowadays women will think it's creepy. There was a time it would not have been, but now there's the socially acceptable term "stalker"! I wouldn't if I were you. Just move on.
 
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