"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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getting a girl's number thru a friend?

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Made a few cool guy friends this semester in one class. Sameclass had a very pretty extremely cute white 9.5 girl.

Never bothered talking to her until today. Problem? Today was the last day of classes.

We talked good for around 30minute, about the exam, college. And jobs etc. Then walked each other to the bus stops

I forgot to ask her for her number, but one of the guy friends is her friend and I can ask him for her number.

1. should I ask him for her number?
2. How should I text her so I don't come off creepy? Nothing wrong with getting a girls number this way right?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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LOL she will think you are and ask how did you get my number?

you never even talked to her until today

thats your own fault for forgetting to get it
 
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Tell him to relay the message. Don't ask for her number directly, but if he knows her, have him say "He's interested, didn't want to creep you out by calling without proper consent first."

If he agrees, that's your best chance. If he doesn't, smack him in the throat, knock him on his ass and kick snow on him. Ask him if he knows who the alpha is. Thought so.
 
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Missed your chance. No point in asking for her number she find you creepy. Oh well live and learn we all miss chances but we wake up and.more are put in front of our face. Just notice them and act
Good luck man
 
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I did something like this....but never talk to the girl before i asked her friend for the number. She already knows who you are and you have talked to her i think she is going to wonder why didnt you ask for it when you had the chance? Or if she is really interested she will give it to him
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Always, always ask yourself. It eliminates the creepy, stalker vibe. You can try to go for it, but be prepared to take a hit.
 
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Nowadays women will think it's creepy. There was a time it would not have been, but now there's the socially acceptable term "stalker"! I wouldn't if I were you. Just move on.
 
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