"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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getting a girl's number thru a friend?

alpha2012

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Made a few cool guy friends this semester in one class. Sameclass had a very pretty extremely cute white 9.5 girl.

Never bothered talking to her until today. Problem? Today was the last day of classes.

We talked good for around 30minute, about the exam, college. And jobs etc. Then walked each other to the bus stops

I forgot to ask her for her number, but one of the guy friends is her friend and I can ask him for her number.

1. should I ask him for her number?
2. How should I text her so I don't come off creepy? Nothing wrong with getting a girls number this way right?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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goldengoose

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LOL she will think you are and ask how did you get my number?

you never even talked to her until today

thats your own fault for forgetting to get it
 

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Tell him to relay the message. Don't ask for her number directly, but if he knows her, have him say "He's interested, didn't want to creep you out by calling without proper consent first."

If he agrees, that's your best chance. If he doesn't, smack him in the throat, knock him on his ass and kick snow on him. Ask him if he knows who the alpha is. Thought so.
 

JohnChops

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Missed your chance. No point in asking for her number she find you creepy. Oh well live and learn we all miss chances but we wake up and.more are put in front of our face. Just notice them and act
Good luck man
 

AriMamba

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I did something like this....but never talk to the girl before i asked her friend for the number. She already knows who you are and you have talked to her i think she is going to wonder why didnt you ask for it when you had the chance? Or if she is really interested she will give it to him
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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VladPatton

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Always, always ask yourself. It eliminates the creepy, stalker vibe. You can try to go for it, but be prepared to take a hit.
 

glass half full

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Nowadays women will think it's creepy. There was a time it would not have been, but now there's the socially acceptable term "stalker"! I wouldn't if I were you. Just move on.
 
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