"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Getting a girls number for non dating purposes

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Today during my lecture i was talking to this girl that sat beside me. We end up talking and joking around and we exchanged fone numbers because she has a used txtbook that she can sell to me lol.
Then after class i was thinking to myself that what just happen is funny because I got a girls number fast but I wasnt even trying to get her number lol, even though she gave it for educational purposes. How do you guys feel abotu getting a girls number for non dating purposes?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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It happens all the time. Just flirt with her a bit, get her all hot and bothered, and then boom! Make your move.
 
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I wasnt even trying to make a move or anything, thats what i find fascinating. sometimes things come to you when you just chill out and relax and be yourself
 
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Yep, just happened to me a few weeks back. I recruited this cute little 21 year old girl from English class to do some modeling for my photography portfolio. Got her to model that weekend, less than a week later I've gotten the make out.

And when I first got her number it was for strictly business reasons, but now its evolved into the fun reasons. ;)
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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this could be a learning experience for you...
women are more likely to give away their phone numbers when they sense you are not trying to date them right away...

you have to bee indifferent and almost too comfortable when asking for a number, like if you were saying "bless you" to someone who sneezes.
 
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