"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Getting a girls number for non dating purposes

ChuChuTrain

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Today during my lecture i was talking to this girl that sat beside me. We end up talking and joking around and we exchanged fone numbers because she has a used txtbook that she can sell to me lol.
Then after class i was thinking to myself that what just happen is funny because I got a girls number fast but I wasnt even trying to get her number lol, even though she gave it for educational purposes. How do you guys feel abotu getting a girls number for non dating purposes?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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ARrocket

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It happens all the time. Just flirt with her a bit, get her all hot and bothered, and then boom! Make your move.
 

ChuChuTrain

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I wasnt even trying to make a move or anything, thats what i find fascinating. sometimes things come to you when you just chill out and relax and be yourself
 

theunflushables

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Yep, just happened to me a few weeks back. I recruited this cute little 21 year old girl from English class to do some modeling for my photography portfolio. Got her to model that weekend, less than a week later I've gotten the make out.

And when I first got her number it was for strictly business reasons, but now its evolved into the fun reasons. ;)
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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pipe007

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this could be a learning experience for you...
women are more likely to give away their phone numbers when they sense you are not trying to date them right away...

you have to bee indifferent and almost too comfortable when asking for a number, like if you were saying "bless you" to someone who sneezes.
 
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