"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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getting a fvck buddy

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BongDuy

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hey i was wondering, how do you get a fvck buddy without comming off as weak? I mean, I could easily just suggest we " do stuff" but in my mind, it comes off as very insecure. I was thinking that if you just made a move on the girl, she may somehow get the impression you want a relationship with her.

How should one usually go when establishing a fvck buddy relationship? let's say the girl is more than likely open to the idea, whats the best approach? Im pretty sure you shouldn't ask her ( Example : Hey you wanna be a fvck buddy?)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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lorekeeper

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IMHO, I belive the best way would be just to do it, no talking, only when it DOEs come up.

Call her up "I'm free in 20 min, let's meet up" (not my finest example ;))
hook up.
Leave.
Rinse and repeat.
When she asks you "where do you see us" or whatever, reply "i thought our relationship was fairly explanitory"
she'll probably get a little pissy, back off and call again later "you free?" ;)

like I said, probably not the best example :(
 
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hehe i just got one the other week. at her house right now :p its fun!
 
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