"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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getting a fvck buddy

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BongDuy

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hey i was wondering, how do you get a fvck buddy without comming off as weak? I mean, I could easily just suggest we " do stuff" but in my mind, it comes off as very insecure. I was thinking that if you just made a move on the girl, she may somehow get the impression you want a relationship with her.

How should one usually go when establishing a fvck buddy relationship? let's say the girl is more than likely open to the idea, whats the best approach? Im pretty sure you shouldn't ask her ( Example : Hey you wanna be a fvck buddy?)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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IMHO, I belive the best way would be just to do it, no talking, only when it DOEs come up.

Call her up "I'm free in 20 min, let's meet up" (not my finest example ;))
hook up.
Leave.
Rinse and repeat.
When she asks you "where do you see us" or whatever, reply "i thought our relationship was fairly explanitory"
she'll probably get a little pissy, back off and call again later "you free?" ;)

like I said, probably not the best example :(
 
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hehe i just got one the other week. at her house right now :p its fun!
 
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