“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Getting a # from a Customer

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Whats up, gentlemen...

I work at a department store, and I see alot of hot girls on a daily basis--I help them find things, and I also deal with them at the register. I am not nervous talking to them at all, as I deal with hoards of them everyday and am desenitized in a way...However, getting a number from them just seems akward to me for whatever reason.

Anyone who wants to talk about girls not wanting to give me their number because they would perceive me as one who does not make money working at a dept store--Please Fvck off...Do not bother to post. I am a college student with a part-time job.

Considering I am getting a girl who is giving me IOI's, what is the best way to get her number, and also how to get her number at the register.

Anyone who is experienced in getting chicks from work would be helpful.

Thanks.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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You got to be careful if you doing that stuff at work. One complaint can get you in trouble with the big boss.
Even if you do get her number and go out if you ever break up with her she knows where to find you or start problems at your work with your boss. Think it over. Be careful.
 

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My specialty! I have gone out with alot of customers,and have gotten in alot of trouble from my boss. Its my first job and I'm not making a career out of it so I figure as long as my job is getting done I will be fine.

I normally approach them "Do you need help finding anything" or "Finding everything alright" and if they say no I help them find it and introduce myself to them after I'm done helping them find whatever they are looking for. Since I work in a "high-end" grocery store we help out the customers,so if I'm feeling it I offer them help out,and if they accept,they know what's up.

Lately I have been approaching "special" customers differently,direct approaching and its worked like a charm so far. The women blush so hard and are so shocked when I approach them its kinda funny. I will ask them if they need help and no matter what their answer is I use something along the lines of,:"Hey I know I shouldn't be doing this at work,but...I thought you were really cute and I wanted to meet you."(I extend my hand)"I'm blinkwatt" and you just role from there.

I have probably approached 8 or so customers. Gone out with 5,2 were flaky. One has a boyfriend but she is more then happy to talk to me and get to know me better,I know she will come right back when she breaks up with her boyfriend.(I direct approached her)
 

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It depends on the type of boss. Some bosses are total jackasses. Others are more flexible.
 
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Exactly the kinda advice that I needed. I really dont have a problem talking with girls--its just the number thing that kinda hangs me up and Im gonna try your line that paces the situation (slightly modified)...

"Hey I know I shouldn't be doing this at work, but...I thought you were really cute and I wanted to meet you outside of work sometime."

I do the whole "finding everything allright?" thing pretty often also, and notice that most people want your help but are to shy to ask for it.

And they can fire me I dont care.

Thanks blinkwatt for the advice.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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