"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Getting a Friend of a Friend who I Don't Know?

nicksaiz65

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I'm not exactly sure how I should approach this situation and I was wondering if you guys maybe had some ideas.

So there's a friend of a friend who I don't know, but I find her very attractive. I see her on like Snapchat stories and stuff. The issue is I've never met her personally. I do know that she comes out with her friend to some of the shows that I play sometimes though.

Now I could just wait for her to come to a show and just Cold Approach. But that seems like a really weak and passive strategy. I mean, what if she doesn't even come out?

So I was wondering how I should go about getting the friend of a friend. Any ideas on how I should go about this?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Reykhel

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Ask your friend to set up a night out..........

Or you, set up a night out, knowing that she'll be going.....

Then go to work with your charm and social skills
 

Billtx49

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Ask your friend about her and indicate interest, or wait and approach at the venue. It’s not cold if the friend is with her. Either way you have an instant social in.…
 
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