"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Getting a fake tan

Sofomore

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So I'm probably getting flamed for this but what are your thoughts on men getting a fake tan? I'm extremely white in the winter and I've had girls call me out.

Have any of you gone to tanning beds? Did you turn orange?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Scars

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It seems slightly gay/jersey shore douchebag-ish to me. But if that's what you want then do it. I prefer to get color naturally. Lucky for me I live close enough to the river where I can enjoy it during summer almost every day. I also get a little pale during winters, but I'm mostly covered by long sleeved clothing so it doesn't matter anyways.

-Scars
 

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There is nothing wrong with your body. There is something wrong with your mind. Lose that self-doubt. Women can smell it a mile away.

Besides, it's women whose bodies are their only asset. Men have bravery, intellect, strength, and social status: attributes that do not show. Have confidence in your manhood. Confident behavior shows.
 

DavenJuan

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Men getting tans where Im from (Cleveland) is not uncommon.... at all. The fact that you even asked this question had me baffled, as if it was frowned upon by others. Apparently this must be a geographical thing.

Not to mention the women that are constantly flowing in and out of these tanning salons.

I personally dont see a major problem going tanning. Of course I can see why its preferred to naturally tan, but as it relates to looking "orange", or getting "flamed" for tanning, i think your way off base.

Go for it
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Quiksilver

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I went to get one years and years ago, when i was 18. I'm pretty pale as well, despite spending a lot of time outdoors.


They turned me away, because i have Type 2 skin.
 

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it's a GREAT way to get skin cancer. avoid it like the plague.
 

FairShake

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OzyBoy said:
Natural is better. :cool:
Also a GREAT way to get skin cancer. Avoid like the plague.

In general I'd say be comfortable in your own skin. Who cares if girls call you out? How serious could they possibly be anyway?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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