"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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getting a date at schjool is hard

joe45

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personally i'n back to skool this semester-univ/college, well as u now previously before i asked like 4 girls out they all said No- so far this will be my last semester and final -if all courses go out well-one hard course-ecoc. i want to since it is my last semester to have at least one girl go out with me. for me its a hard task. ppl here say go ask like 10 girls out and if one says yes its a go-its a numbers game-well were u gonna now 10 girls???
trust me at my college-everyone goes to class , lecture and then leaves-no much for chit chat unless the girl sits next to ya. cafertia well-everyones in their own group of freinds-u don;t just jump in-ppl at my college is like everyone just outta HS-they probably knew one another from HS or maybe elem-so ya just jump in and say can i join ya-like an outsider right.
also u aask one girl out -ur askin like every girl out-my college is small-gossip goes around fast- joe a playa, a flirt, can't get a date, ask me out and also asked jessica out omg what a playa. yea word gets out fast.
its harder than u think in gettin a date-i'm 25 and i feel hopeless-don;t get me wrong i tried, its harder than u think it is. also a lot of the decent to avg looking girls already have bfs- or are dating, its like why bother.
i not as easy as ppl say it is-not sure how some guys get lot of girls - or cheat on their gfs-but my saying is this one u get a gf and shes nice and all keep her getting a date, gf is hardddddddd.
btw i don;t go to bars or clubs
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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LongDrinkofWater

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So you're going to college?
For a moment, I thought, u waz talkin 'bout hi skool....
 

El MonoLoco

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If you think that scoring at school is hard try somewhere else..

You say you don't go to bars/clubs???why not???

It doesn't really matter where you meet a girl, but you do have to put in the effort to meet them.

Don't worry about the gossip that goes on at your school. Your not gossiping so who cares. The more you think about what other people are thinking about you your game will suffer.

Don't feel hopeless though things will get better if you put some elbow grease into it....know what I mean?

You might want to work on your communication skills a bit too....
I had a tough time just trying to figure out what you said......


lol
 
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