"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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getting a date at schjool is hard

joe45

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personally i'n back to skool this semester-univ/college, well as u now previously before i asked like 4 girls out they all said No- so far this will be my last semester and final -if all courses go out well-one hard course-ecoc. i want to since it is my last semester to have at least one girl go out with me. for me its a hard task. ppl here say go ask like 10 girls out and if one says yes its a go-its a numbers game-well were u gonna now 10 girls???
trust me at my college-everyone goes to class , lecture and then leaves-no much for chit chat unless the girl sits next to ya. cafertia well-everyones in their own group of freinds-u don;t just jump in-ppl at my college is like everyone just outta HS-they probably knew one another from HS or maybe elem-so ya just jump in and say can i join ya-like an outsider right.
also u aask one girl out -ur askin like every girl out-my college is small-gossip goes around fast- joe a playa, a flirt, can't get a date, ask me out and also asked jessica out omg what a playa. yea word gets out fast.
its harder than u think in gettin a date-i'm 25 and i feel hopeless-don;t get me wrong i tried, its harder than u think it is. also a lot of the decent to avg looking girls already have bfs- or are dating, its like why bother.
i not as easy as ppl say it is-not sure how some guys get lot of girls - or cheat on their gfs-but my saying is this one u get a gf and shes nice and all keep her getting a date, gf is hardddddddd.
btw i don;t go to bars or clubs
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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LongDrinkofWater

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So you're going to college?
For a moment, I thought, u waz talkin 'bout hi skool....
 

El MonoLoco

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If you think that scoring at school is hard try somewhere else..

You say you don't go to bars/clubs???why not???

It doesn't really matter where you meet a girl, but you do have to put in the effort to meet them.

Don't worry about the gossip that goes on at your school. Your not gossiping so who cares. The more you think about what other people are thinking about you your game will suffer.

Don't feel hopeless though things will get better if you put some elbow grease into it....know what I mean?

You might want to work on your communication skills a bit too....
I had a tough time just trying to figure out what you said......


lol
 
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