"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Getting a bit nervous.

Perfect10

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I'm going (hopefully) on a date with a chick today. I sent her a message to get today at like 12am that we should meet 6pm in one place. She hasn't answered and it's already 3pm. I don't know if I should call her? Just go there and see if she shows up or not? It's getting annoying.
I don't know here that well. I've seen her twice with friends and both times only talked with her. This is basically the first date. I've also talked with her on FB chat just for a short while.

I'm getting a feeling that I should cancel the date since I don't think she's intrested.

So some advice would be very helpful :)
Thank you in advance.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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blinkwatt101

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Yeah pal,looks like you should let this one go.

FYI,try to keep conversations on the phone,not to text.
 

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Lol she sent me a txt :) Nice! I'm back on track. Will meet her in one hour!
 
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